Today is my birthday, and I had hoped to receive an outpouring of birthday wishes from friends and loved ones. However, I was told that I might not get any because I don’t fit conventional beauty standards. This thought has left me feeling heartbroken and disheartened. It’s disconcerting to think that our worth or the kindness we receive is tied to our appearance.

Birthdays should be about celebrating life and connection, not about meeting arbitrary standards of beauty. Every person has unique qualities that make them special, and kindness should not be reserved for those deemed “beautiful” by societal norms. As I reflect on my own birthday, I realize that genuine connections and heartfelt wishes often come from those who appreciate us for who we are, not how we look.

It’s a reminder that love and friendship are much more profound than physical appearance. I hope to embrace this day with positivity and to remind myself that I deserve celebration and joy, regardless of how I perceive my looks. Here’s to celebrating all forms of beauty and the wonderful people who make our lives richer!